Endorsing What Is Happening | The No BS CoachingAdvice Podcast
By Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter
I share a story of my own life as a gateway to talking about something that may be happening to you.
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Hi! I’m Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter. Many years ago, I work for an employment agency in New York The owner of the agency was obnoxious, rude, mean, successful, intolerant, abusive, and a whole host of other negative adjectives. I put up with it for a number of years because I believed that the economy was good and I didn’t want to rock the boat. I wound up leaving when the economy turned sour and I could go to another place and have the financial wherewithal to ride it out. I didn’t want to rock my numbers and disturbed my circumstances where I
was making a lot of money.
I tell this story because many of you are putting up with things Unconsciously; I did It consciously. I talked to a number of people and asked for advice about evaluating my situation and the choices I had. Many of you have gotten to the point Where you are being worn down by organizations and have gotten to tolerate bad circumstances. Maybe not as bad as what I was in but bad circumstances nonetheless.
When you have grown to tolerate them as I have come to learn over the course of time, what you are doing is endorsing the behavior and basically saying, “It’s OK to be treat me this way.” I’m not suggesting you go off the handle, scream and throw a tantrum. But there are ways to cope with a manager, an owner, a person who is just abusive.
For you as a professional, I don’t see a reason (and this is true of myself) there is no reason to put up with abusive treatment. There is no reason to give them tacit endorsement for their behavior. Someone else will treat you well AND they will probably pay more money.
Again, I’m not telling you to change jobs instantaneously. I just want you to wake up to the bad treatment that you are receiving and take action In your own time and in your own way
.So this is Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter and this is No BS Coaching Advice. I hope you found it helpful AND If you like to talk with me, if you like me to do some coaching, send me an email. The address is JeffAltman@TheBigGameHunter.us (that’s different than what I said in the podcast).
I hope you have a great day.
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ABOUT JEFF ALTMAN, THE BIG GAME HUNTER
Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter is a coach who worked as a recruiter for what seems like one hundred years. He is hired to provide No BS Career Advice globally. That can involve job search, hiring staff, management, leadership, career transition and advice about resolving workplace issues. Schedule a discovery call at my website, www.TheBigGameHunter.us
He is the host of “No BS Job Search Advice Radio,” the #1 podcast in iTunes for job search with over 2400 episodes.
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