If people (or yourself) have labeled you a complainer, this video is for you.

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I'm Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter. I coach people and organizations and help people be more effective in their work, in their lives. a whole host of different places. This is one of my No BS Coaching Advice videos.

Complaining is like a poison. It saps away our attitude about ourselves and others. It steals life from us. It is poison. Some people will say, "stop complaining. We don't want your whining anymore." But that's not really it. It's self destructive behavior and, frankly, it doesn't serve a purpose except venting.

The things that you complain about are often things that you should be doing something about. The result winds up being that you need to take some action in order to change the complaints, change the circumstances that you're in, that have evoked that kind of response.

Think about it for a second. Something's wrong at work. Fix it. Can't fix it? change jobs. You've got choices. Something wrong at home? Talk with your wife, husband, partner. Have a conversation with them. Don't avoid it. Don't let it eat you up from the inside. Do something about it.

Have a problem with one of your children? Sit them down. Talk with them. The inlaws. It doesn't matter what the situation is. you can always do something and that's what you need to do instead of complaining.

Not sure what to do? Then don't have the conversation right away. Do you know what to do? Don't avoid it. Do it! Seriously. Take action.

If it involves leaving your family, take a lot of time for that decision. I never want to encourage someone to leave their family. There tends to be a way out of it. The one exception I place is if you're the violent one, get the hell out.

But if this is an issue between you and your husband, wife or partner, then you gotta talk it through. Leaving should not be your first choice or your 41st choice unless there's a safety issue.

Stop complaining. Do something.

Hope you found this helpful. Visit NoBSCoachingAdvice.com. I'd love to help you. Take care.

ABOUT JEFF ALTMAN, THE BIG GAME HUNTER

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter
Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter is a coach who worked in recruiting for what seems like one hundred years. He is the head coach for NoBSCoachingAdvice.com. He is the host of “The No BS Coaching Advice Podcast,” and “No BS Job Search Advice.”

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