Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter draws from his own experience to talk about the decision to change jobs.
I want to talk with you about the decision to change jobs and draw upon my own experience. On two occasions in my career, I was working for organizations for 10 years or more. I was clearly entrenched in these organizations, very comfortable despite some of the nonsense that existed there.
We all know every organization has nonsense – – people of personalities, they have moods. You live with them for a long period of time and some of those times of frustrating.
In the most recent instance, I was associated with the firm for more than a dozen years and no matter what I did, the matter what I said, there was a lengthy period of time I was hitting my head against the wall in frustration. Still the idea of changing jobs didn't come to mind.
It one more instance (the details aren't important) for my wife to interrupt me one day and ask, "Have you thought about changing jobs at all?" Ultimately, I decided to start my own firm
Sometimes, you just have to listen to what someone else tells you or ask you and pause and ask yourself a question, "Why not?" What's keeping you there? What's so good about this situation that you want to go through all the frustration you go through?
I've been in sales for a long time and much of my income comes from commission. For those of you were not in sales, is it worth the salary that you are getting to experience all the frustration that you're going through?
Why are you accepting this? Who are you trying to please in all of this?
When all is said and done, ultimately, let them make the right decision for yourself. However, if you are noticing that there are more days than not when you are referring to things that can best be described as "nonsense," when no matter how are in Africa making success is not available to you, sometimes that's because the market that you're serving, sometimes that's because the systems that your operating (i.e. the company rules and regulations that get in the way of you obtaining the success that you want), why are you putting up with it?
My encouragement to you is to stop for a second and think or have an ally available because (like in my case, my wife) who, in a very simple way, asked "Have you thought about changing jobs yet?"
Then, think about it. Why not? Why not change jobs? Why tolerate the mediocrity of your current situation, your lack of contentment and happiness that comes with your current role?
Do you think employers are trying to help you? You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.
The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.
Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.
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